Certain people have a lots of preferences in choosing people to move with. In this aspect, I classify people into three kinds - those who have prefences and would move only with preferred kind of people, those who have preferences but could sacrifice thier preferences and could move with any kind of people and the third kind have no preferences that is they move well regardless of the kind of people they encounter.

If we observe the word around, we can see a mix of these kind of people. Each of these characteristics will have its own advantages..

Being one in the first kind is of great use to oneself. You'll get whatever you want, but when you happen to find no one of your preference, you dip.
The second is the best, because you can adjust to any kind of situations, still you'll be able to reap whatever you want whenever you happen to find such people.
The third is something that is useless, you cannot go highly esteemable to your ownself, although you can have all laurels in the outer world..

Ashes!!!
It really means something meaningful to me now!
When a cup of ashes of bails from a lost match can aspire "winning" and when a phoenix can be "re-born" from its own ashes, it really means something!!!

The revival of the old "ME", who would never expect nothing from nobody, who is a love-giver not a love-sucker, who is full of energy, comfidence and whatnot, is a sudden happening like a "BOOOOOOOOMMMMMMMM". The meloncholic me vanished, something like a dirty thing burning into "ashes", all of a sudden. Like "re-birth" and "aspiration" the old me was born out of that.

I now start valuing something that I believed it never can happen - what people call as "rebirth revival renaissance renewal" and "rejuvenation". The phoenix inside oneself, I think now, is a very powerful entity, that would transform one's suffering, one's woes, one's nonsenses into something blooming, buzzing and blazing, everything all of a sudden like waterflow from a pressure built dam, a transformation from an extremely (so called) tight mindset into a completely slack and liberal mindset, like a flock of a hundred birds getting freed from bondage inside a cage!!!